Anger Into Art

After being awakened numerous times during the night by my dog, instead of taking my anger out on him, I decided to express it in another way.

I remembered my husband telling me some thirty years ago that I did my best work when I was emotional. The work at that time was songwriting. Frustrated with him over some issues that I don’t even remember now, I reached into my pocketbook, pulled out a piece of paper, and finished my first song.

The result of my frustration today didn’t turn out too bad.

War Paint

I pray my Native American friends won’t be offended. It is just what popped into my head at that moment.

I have learned over the years that it is okay to be angry but is healthier to direct that anger in a more productive way.

When you are angry, take the time to do this:

Controlled breathing – breath in slowly for 7 seconds and then slowly out for 7 seconds and release. Repeat as needed until calm.

Redirection – Write, draw, play an instrument or whatever creative outlet you have, and put all that emotion that you were feeling into it.

Anger we know can be very destructive and unhealthy. If you don’t have a creative outlet, think about taking a class or teach yourself something new.

Take the time to care about YOU!

Have an awesome day. Jesus loves you.

Advice To The Love Worn

You first have to know what love is and what it’s not!

Let’s get the nots out of the way…

Love is not an excuse to have sex when you are too young to even know what it is!

Love is not the feeling you share when you are physically, emotionally, and mentally abusing someone you care about.

Love should not hurt, and if it does, it’s not right for you.

Love is a deep emotional feeling that should bring out the best in you. God teaches us that it is his greatest gift to us and the one thing he wants us to share.

Love is a maternal instinct between a mother and a child.

Love is timeless and crosses generations

Love is the glue that keeps relationships together.

Love is the one common emotion that is seen in most species. Our pets express love by their actions and for their young.

Love is enduring. This strange emotion can make you happy and tearful. It’s only limitation is death, and some still love their partners after their demise.

It’s a funny thing this thing called love. It can be beautiful, frustrating, and stir up all kinds of emotions. It is passionate both physically and emotionally.

People who love bond easier with other people. We all desire that strong connection. It’s like an electrical charge. As long as you have it, most people seem to function better. It is certainly easy to recognize people who do not have love in their life.

Allow yourself to love God first, then love yourself. Extend that love to your family members, friends, and even strangers. It’s contagious. It’s the one thing that you can spread that will have a positive effect on everyone.

Share the love ❤️.